of declaring your independence from people this way? George, you are not 2 anymore. There are other ways of communicating than saying "no, mine".

: There is a popular song (although I have not heard it since I downloaded the
: mp3 file) with the refrain "You're so vain, you think this song is
: about you."

: In your (everone here individually or collectively) situation "You're so
: vain you think I am in business for you." Suprise, I am in business
: for me not you.

: You do not sell me goods or services, you do not work for me, and you have no
: ability to purchase the goods and services I produce or to influence those
: who have that ability. Neither I nor you need the other.

: I give the best advise I can. I stand up for myself when abused, I stand up
: for others who are abused. If you don't like that, go to HELL.